3/16/12 UPDATE: Linda F. is the winner of the Starbucks gift card!


Before I introduce my guest today, I'd like to mention my post over at the Diamond State Romance Authors' blog. My post is about "The Random Muse" and I have a picture of a structure that helped to inspire the story of The Waiting BoothClick here to read.  I'm also a guest at Jennifer Eaton's blog with an interview. Jennifer said something about taking on the little blue woman from Mars, but I'm not scared. Click here to read. 

Now, I'd like to introduce Lori Freeland. Lori is one of those giving writers. She has regular posts on her blog on how to improve your writing. She explains it simply and with great examples. Sometimes, she makes it sound so simple that I wonder why I'm making it difficult. She has a very cool website with lots of tips for writers and the everyday fun stuff, too. Her website is HERE if you want to visit it later.
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Those Who Teach, Do Better   ~  Lori Freeland

Remember the old adage—those who can’t do, teach?

I disagree.

Unless we’re talking about my seventh-grade gym teacher who wore his red velour tracksuit loose to hide his flab and loved to yell, “Run faster,” as our awkward gangly bodies struggled around the track to complete our required Presidential Fitness Test.

I believe those who want to do better teach.

When you teach, you learn. When you teach, you strengthen your critique skills. When you teach, you live with an open-hand philosophy.

Let me explain.

My mission statement as a writer is this. Find a Mentor. Be a Mentor. Broken down, that means find someone who will cheer you on, then turn around and lift up someone else. Walk the writing journey with others. Find people that push you forward and become the person that pushes others forward.

Envision yourself as an old-fashioned gold scale.

Hold both hands out, palms up, even with each other. Look at your left hand and imagine a mentor pouring knowledge into your palm. Your hand sags under the welcome weight of new skills and encouragement.

Now picture your right palm. Tip your hand and let your knowledge pour out into someone else. Watch in amazement as your left hand sags deeper under the weight of new blessings.

You don’t have to carry a plethora of skills in your life backpack to mentor others. If you possess one skill, share it. If you discover one new nugget of information, present it. If you have an hour, give it. You’ll be amazed at what you reap in return for your generosity of time and skill.

And if you need a selfish reason to share your time—try this one. It’s easier to see mistakes when other people make them. What if you made a list of all their mistakes and used that list to check your own work?

So find a mentor. Be a mentor. Offer to help someone who’s climbing the rungs of the writing ladder just behind you. When her fingers touch your heels, turn around, and offer your hand.

I challenge you to encourage someone today. Send an email. A tweet. A text. Push another writer forward to the next level then sit back and enjoy the Domino Effect.

It’s an amazing sight to watch!  


NOTE FROM BRINDA: I'd like to buy you a cup of coffee. Leave a comment for a $5 Starbucks gift card. Tell us about someone who has helped you along the way.  Or tell us about ways you are helping other writers. I'll draw one winner with random.org by Thursday at midnight CST. 

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About Lori:

I Am Obsessed with Imaginary People. Avid Reader of All Things YA. Critique Facilitator at SCBWI. Writing Group Leader. Contributor and Blogger for Crosswalk.com. Faith Team Editor at The Christian Pulse. Writing Coach for North Texas Christian Writers.

 


 


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03/14/2012 6:15am

I love to talk to new writers and encourage them. Their Pixie Dust is intoxicating and helps rekindle the excitement for the writing process.

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03/14/2012 8:04am

I love pixie dust. Going to bring a baggie to collect it next time I teach!

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:45pm

I love the thought of writer pixie dust!

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03/14/2012 7:47am

Great point Lori! Brinda, thanks for sharing your blog time for some encouragement from a blog sista! :)

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03/14/2012 8:05am

Yes, Brinda. Thanks so much for letting me hop over here today. I love your blog. It's cozy and warm and colorful. I may not leave :)

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:46pm

Hi Jennifer, Lori is a jewel. I'm glad I found her. Lori- hang around!!

03/14/2012 7:50am

I love to write and I love to share what I've learned along the way with others. Sharing knowledge is a big thing for me. I also get a huge kick out of promoting debut YA authors and reviewing YA books. Can you tell I like YA??? I'm also rather fond of the little pixie muse that sits under my desk, that is until she starts whacking me with her wand to get me motivated to write. :)

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03/14/2012 8:06am

Double yay for YA! It doesn't matter how old we are, right? I just totally get sucked in.

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:47pm

I recently go another friend hooked on YA after I recommended The Hunger Games and Delirium. We are taking over. :)

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03/14/2012 8:49am

Quite often the teacher learns more than the student, so I agree with this. If the teacher is benefiting above all else, it makes sense that they would "do better."

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:48pm

Emily- That is SO true.

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03/14/2012 9:05am

Such an uplift reading your column today. On two levels. I spent 25 years as a teacher so have silently ground my teeth on many the occasion of hearing that old saw. And second, my post yesterday talked about the issue of helping, specifically about critiquing and the importance of being positive. I quite enjoyed your thoughts, Lori!

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:49pm

Lori's post really makes me want to do more. Thanks for stopping by today!

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03/14/2012 9:43am

I agree with sharing and helping. I still feel too new to be instructional, but I will say I have run across many who have opened up and passed on their knowledge to me. From a newbie it is great to know there are ones out there willing to help. I will do the same some day.
Great post, thanks Lori and Brinda
Lynda

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:50pm

Hi Lynda, There are so many who have helped me as well.

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Brinda
03/16/2012 5:38pm

Lynda- You have won the Starbucks gift card!

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03/14/2012 10:31am

Lori, it is an old expression, but it holds true. The circle is complete when the teacher becomes the student. When we teach others, we also become students. Also ... in one RWA chapter their slogan begins ... one hand reaching forward, one reaching back, to complete the circle. Thank you Brinda for introducing us to Lori :)

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:51pm

What a cool slogan for an RWA chapter!

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03/14/2012 8:34pm

I like that slogan a lot!

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03/14/2012 10:39am

Love this. I'm heading up the Mentorship Committee at my RWA chapter and have more mentees than mentors. You've convinced me to take on a couple more...thanks!

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:51pm

Christine- Those are some lucky mentees. :)

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03/14/2012 8:36pm

I'm glad I convinced you :)

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03/14/2012 11:21am

I used to organize and co host prose and poetry readings with another local author (so handy that he had his own coffee bar) but abandoned that due to time and distance. I miss that part of the life, mostly because I would often encounter new writers.
I still go to readings, new writer's enthusiasm is contagious and inspiring on those days I forget the joy in what I do.

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:53pm

I envy people who are good with prose and poetry readings. I would definitely need a mentor.

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03/14/2012 8:36pm

That sounds fun. Coffee and writing and poetry. Heaven.

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03/14/2012 11:22am

I haven't been lucky enough to have a mentor or mentor another writer. However, I find judging RWA writing contests a great way to give back. It affords me the opportunity to provide feedback that I hope will help that individual get published some day. At the same time, I learn a lot from their mistakes and how to give constructive criticism rather than a harsh critique that may be ignored.

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:54pm

Isis- I think there are different ways of giving back and judging writers' contests fall into that category of helping others.

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03/14/2012 8:37pm

That's a good point. Judging contests. And it sounds fun.

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Barbara Bates
03/14/2012 12:22pm

Lori: Earlier today I read a similar article that did not refer to writing. The author stated you should surround yourself with three different kinds of people. A person who knows more than you, a mentor; one who knows less, a student; and one at your level, someone you can bounce things off of and relate to. I've always been a believer in teaching others. It cememts the knowledge into your brain, and allows you to approach the knowledge in different ways as you explain it to different people. (Not everyone understands things presented the same way.) Great article

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:55pm

That's a neat concept of a well-rounded group. You're right. It does cement it into your brain when you show someone else.

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03/14/2012 8:38pm

The magic four! I love that. Everyone has a different perspective and different skills to share.

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03/14/2012 3:50pm

I get together with a group of woman writers 1x a month. Many are way ahead of me, so I pick their brains on what I need to know. Lindsay Buroker has helped me a lot.

I pass on my knowledge to people I meet in my writers guild. I'm teaching a class in April on platform & building a blog.

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Brinda
03/14/2012 6:56pm

I love meeting with my fellow RWA writers monthly. I owe a lot to the giving nature of our writers.

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03/14/2012 8:33pm

Emily--it works out so well for both people that way.
Elaine--thank you!
Lynda--I'll be you'd be surprised at what you have to share!
Mary--I love it when my crit partners take classes. Then we all have so much new info to share!

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03/15/2012 12:20am

I thhink I've learned more about writing from critiquing than from all the writers books I've read. It is an amazing feeling to help a fellow author along their journey.

.......dhole

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03/15/2012 10:22pm

I agree!

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03/15/2012 2:27am

I love to share things with writers online, in my critique group, and at conferences. In the classroom, I enjoy teaching writing and seeing the improvement from the beginning to the end of the school year. I also learn things along the way. Sharing and critiquing makes me a better writer.

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03/15/2012 10:23pm

Medeia, you have a super cool name. Want to trade?

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03/15/2012 7:57am

Hi, Lori and Brinda!

You both know what it's meant to have you devote your time to helping me. GREAT analogy, Lori, on the scale. You're living examples of "paying it forward."

Sorry I was late to the party. If only my physcial social life were as busy as my social media life...

I'd weigh three hundred pounds from all the sweet nuggets of info I collect along the way.

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03/15/2012 10:21pm

What's a social life???? Oh yeah, I used to have one of those. Now I live in imaginary worlds. With hot guys...and hot cars. <sigh> Jealous?

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03/15/2012 9:08am

Hi Lori and Brinda-- Great post. I've always loved to teach and share with others. I learn so much more that way! These days i find myself being a teacher and mentor on author promotion and i love it because i have to clarify my own ideas in order to teach them. Thank you both for all you teach me. : )

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03/15/2012 10:20pm

Tara, I think your word "clarify" puts it exactly right. When you teach, it takes the blur off the knowledge.

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03/15/2012 9:43am

I'm one of the fortunate mentee's in Lori's first group, the Literati. We meet every week and then continue the conversation all week long through email critiques.

Lori has poured countless hours into my life. When the seven of us began each one brought to the table a piece of the writing puzzle. But Lori had the keys to the writing kingdom and the drive and determination to chart a course for us.

God is blessing Lori's caring and willing spirit to go those extra sleepless miles. And she in turn has and is filling our lives with the overflow of His heavenly shovelfuls to her.

Another great post, Lori. Thanks for having her, Brinda.

DiAne

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03/15/2012 10:19pm

You brought tears to my eyes :) Don't know what I'd do without you, DiAne.

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